Here is a picture of my Daddy, my brother Dave and myself at the Dedication for the Veteran's Memorial in Conway. My Daddy and brother would not look at the camera! Men! I was not unhappy, but I can't smile because of my Bells Palsy, so it's not a very flattering picture of me. My Daddy has a brick at the memorial in honor of his service in the Army.
Okay.....I'm going to see if I can get through this blog without too many tears. My Daddy was recently diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma. This is a form of cancer in the plasma cell. About a month ago, my Daddy was not feeling well and went to the doctor and they ran some "routine" bloodwork. Well, the bloodwork showed something they didn't like, so they called him to do more bloodwork and then a third time for more bloodwork. Never, ever did I think it could be cancer. It never crossed my mind. I cried for two days and could not go see my Daddy for the fear of upsetting him. I checked on him through Mama, but I just could not bring myself to talk to him. Everytime I thought about him and I could see his face, I cried. So, when I thought I could see him without crying, I did and HE made ME feel better. Isn't that crazy?!?! He told me he was fine and that we couldn't worry about things we couldn't control. He has been to an oncologist in Roanoke Rapids and they are currently doing a series of tests. His last test is a bone marrow test on November 17th. The doctor told him that they would compile all of the tests together and determine if the cancer was benign or malignant. I always thought benign meant non-cancerous, but I found out that it means non-recurrent or non-progressive. He has not showed any symptoms and he's not anemic, so the doctor said that was in his favor.
I've had to wait before posting this because my parents didn't want "the world" to know yet. But, I've had several people approach me, so the word is out. Please keep my Daddy in your prayers. He is truly an amazing man! My brother and I are so lucky to have such great parents.